4.无论生男生女，爸爸都要心怀感激

During pregnancy， childbirth， and postpartum care， fathers play a crucial role in supporting their partners. They can distract， encourage， massage， and assist with breathing techniques during labor. Afterward， fathers should provide emotional support，鲜花或其他 tokens of appreciation， and take on responsibilities like overnight hospital stays. Remember to celebrate the birth of both boys and girls， and ensure a balanced focus on the mother"s recovery.