在婚姻中总是挑剔伴侣，可能出于什么原因？

The passage discusses the influence of parents"挑剔关系 on an individual"s tendency to be critical in their own marriages， involving concepts such as observation， mirroring， forced repetition， and the impact of parent-child dynamics， particularly with mothers. It highlights the role of family patterns in shaping one"s behavior and the desire to avoid repeating past roles.